hey i was reading Cait's blog (shes in my links) and she had these.. So, i thought i would put the ones i agree with in my blog just becuase i have nothing else to write. haha not the i have a boyfriend or anything tho, but still read this and learn a thing or two:

#1 always..YES always be yourself... whoever she is, she should like you for you...

#2 DONT be cocky, it makes you look self absorbed. Timidness or self-disdain can be annoyin to thoough. Just...be confident damnit!

#3 If you dont already...find yourself an awesome calogne...girls love it! BO is DEFINITELY not the smell of romance...(sorry to break it to those guys in our gym class hahahaha...and personally cologne is definitely a big big big plus..well...a given) (me and cait are in the same gym class)

#4 Corny pickup lines = no. just..no. well, they work on some girls..unless you're just joking around then just be pretty straight forward, it's better that way.

#5 When asking a girl out make it special...be romantic! Ask her while you both are sitting under the stars, or well..not in a dark alley...AND a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE no would be on the internet or phone. no no no. romance is the way to go. better setting=better chances. take it from the pros.

#6 When you want to kiss a girl...be romantic...refer to the above^. Dont ask a girl to kiss her, bcuz i know a lot of ppl + me who hate that, plus u will have less of a chance if u ask...just go for it...yea its risky...but you never kno til you try? Also a good kisser is always a definite plus with girls..

#7 Girls like to feel special. Compliment her or flirt (learn how to do it well or it doesn't work...) Also, holding her around the waist or giving her your sweater to wear or putting your arm around her works (unless she's one of those people who doesn't like to be touched by some..but that does show signs of non interest. so chances are if she doesn't want to be touched by you she probably isn't into it..sorry guys)

#8 If you want to put your arm around her...like Nike says JUST DO IT. No corny yawning moves or slow aproaches....not only are they cheesy...but you could end up poking the person next to your girl in the eye...eeessshhhh
#10 IN NO WAY is it okay to burp, fart, or scratch in the presense of a girl...its not funny...its just gross.

#11 In the question of boxers vs. breifs...every girl has their preference...but my advice is boxers. No one wants to think of tighty whiteys *shudder*

# 12 Don't slap a girl's butt unless you KNOW ABSOLUTELY for sure shes okay with it....or else u could get a slap back....and it WILL hurt. Plus you've got ur own butt to fondle......but, some girls "enjoy" it...

#13 Outside appearance isn't all its cracked up to be. Show us some good humor or a sweetie on the inside we'll melt like THAT (but, not stupid gay faggot humour. you will get shot in the faaaace for that.)

#14 Dont label. Dont call her a prep or call urself a punk...real people dont need labels.

#15 Try not to send the wrong signals. Girls like to be chased by guys who are interested in them. Don't ignore them...how will they ever know you like them! oh yeah, and even if the girl is playing hard to get, it's most likely she just wants you to chase her for a little bit. don't worry, she'll give in. ;)

#16 Never make "getting some" the purpose of a date....its selfish and you'll end up sadly alone. again, it depends on the girl, but seriously...using girls for getting some is just...well..it's not cool. so. don't. but I mean if she wants to kiss then duh go for it. just be romantic.

#17 Act your age, not your shoe size...unless your shoe size is like a size 13 and you're 14...well...you get what I mean.

#18 Most girls are all about balance. We like to have fun but we know when to buckle down. Guys who are too serious can be too boring...but guys who are always hyper can get annoying. guys who flirt with other girls is a no, but guys who say "I LOVE YOU SO MUCH I WANT TO MARRY YOU AND BE WITH YOU FOREVER" is a liiiiiiiitle overboard. use your own discretion...I'm sure you know how to handle it..

#19 Be sincere and honest..you can do no better! After all you have to give respect to get respect. nothing is more important to a girl than respect. let HER do the slapping not you.

#21 If you wish to live...NEVER under any circumstances make fun of what a girl wears or call her anorexic if she doesn't eat.

#22 For those dim ones out there...there is a time during the month when we're um...not ourselves. STAY AWAY far far away...*eh hem* oh yeah, don't joke about that either. cause sometimes we do just get pissed off cause YOU did something stupid, it might not necessarily be "that"

#23 NEVER screw a girl over...especially if she has an older brother or protective guy friend...you will be killed. and if you don't believe us, then go ahead and try. we won't attend your funeral.

#24 Musicians as in guitarists/bassist/drummers =hott
Confident guys= hott Cocky guys= ewwww

#25 Girls' houses are NOT ur 24 hr restaurant so dont treat them as such...yea the way to a guyz heart is through his stomach...but the way to a girl's heart is NOT through her kitchen!

#26 welll.. a really important tip is when you're around your friends, you can fool around with them...but if you forget about her it really isn't cool. and if you change and act all perverted and such then she'll end up getting pissed. because that's a turn off. majorly and compltely. it's definitely hot when guys don't give a damn what other people think. so. do that.

#27.. 6 words... know how to make moves.......VERY WELL. oh..that's 7 words. oh well..

And thats it for now, u might have noticed i skipped a couple, those are the ones i don't agree with and im too lazy to change the numbers, but if u would like to read the two that i skipped i'll write them down:


#9 DANCE! Girls love a guy who can dance. Good at grinding or swing dancing....as long as you can sweep her off her feet! Otherwise if you dont...we will...and with OTHER guys...lots of em!



#20 (for the already hooked up) When your lost and don't know what to get your girl...major tip...stuffed animals + girls = good thing (well...for me I'd just say slap me up with a romance CD and I'm good...buuuut stuffed animals is good too..)


haha well i had nothing else to write, i didn't make this up i think cait and trisha did, but yah sumtimes guys can be stupid, some of them state the obvious and others, read them and learn sumthing, i will write sumthing else later.